Fighting

Fighting....the words........the raising of ones voice.....

Why am I scared of it? Well I've had my parents fight over and over again. I've constantly heard their raised voices which causes me to shrink in fear and even cry. So because of this when I watch a movie that has fighting in it, I grow very uncomfortable because it reminds me of the many arguments that my parents have. Sometimes I wish we could all get along, but that is not so. Now it almost feels like I have a phobia of fighting, wow I really wonder what that's going to do to my future husband. If we get in a fight, I may just break out into tears and not even try to get my point across if his voice is raised. See what happends when parents don't control themselves in front of their children? They grow afraid of them.......
Another question: Why most society fight? It is because we are so geared toward getting our point across and always being right. So why can't we settle problems peacefully and not have to raise our voices when one is angered?

Fighting......words......raising one's voice: fear